Im 17...he's in his late 30's!!!?

There is this guy down my local pub...i go down there only sometimes and he lives two doors away from me. He is in his late 30's i think, he is married and has two young children. One night down the pub, a year ago he kept staring at me and saying 'i like those kinky boot's' and down in the pool area i coud see him glancing up to me all the time. The past few days every time i go down to the pub he is there staring at me all the time, i find it quite weird but i sort of like it! Once at a party he was saying how attractive i was and making a conversation..my mate overheard him saying to someone about me and my friend that we were so gorgeous. Oh and also the other night he wanted to know how i got on when i went home (i kind of stole my parents champagne for a laugh feel so bad lol :S) and he says i should talk to him more. what do i do? does he like me in that way? should i just avoid him...im so confused because i kind of enjoy what he is doing...it turns me on!? :S

Im 17...he's in his late 30's!!!?lyric opera

omg you better avoid him woman!

he is marry! you are tempting him to cheat on his wife and that is so so so wrong and so on the dirt level and if you believe in Christianity, a sin to god

also if you become involve with him you will just be giving him and his family problems 'cause its against the law for someone of the age of 30 to have any sexual relation with someone under 18,

he just wants you for your body!

:P

Im 17...he's in his late 30's!!!?imax theater opera theater

Thats just gross...sorry!
Leave him alone...he's a freak.
I believe that's illegal
Avoid him. HE'S MARRIED! Tell his wife, if you can.
Your 17 hes 30, Hes a loser, wait till your older and you will see. Go find some other boys to run around with!
don't even think about it.
YOu can do what ever you want to him but first find out more information on him ok
you are 17 that is jsut quite gross. find someone your age besides he is married with kids that is just too much. if he doesnt show his wife respect he wont show you besides seems like a pedophile to me.
Well find something else to turn you on because he is married. Not only is he married but he has children to think about too. Leave him alone, find a guy a little closeer to your age and dont put yourself in a dangerous situation. Just avoid him!!!
your naive, you might like the attention and the flirting, but

he is in his late 30's and married. Your heading for trouble

that you don't know how to deal with. And what are you doing

at a PUB instead of doing things with guys and girls your

own age and mentality level ?????
avoid him....he sounds like a perverted old man. you can do that, your mate will be hurt
Keep your distance the guy is a creep. only trouble will become of this if you let him draw you to him anymore than he already has.
I would say no! Just because the age difference. The guy is only looking for one thing and that is clear! It is your life but a good decision would be to not communicate with him. You can find a much better guy your age that can make you happy.
Stay away from him. He's counting on your youth to make you take stupid chances. Don't let him win that bet! He needs to be home with his family, and YOU do not need to be his fantasy!
If you want to be the other woman, go ahead. The age difference is nothing in my book. I have dated women 22 years younger than me. The fact he is married and kids is a flag. Chances are you will get hurt in the long run. Don't complicate matters for his family.
Sweetie, you are underage and that is illegal and wrong. If your parents found out they would be very scared and upset. Please protect yourself and stay away from men twice your age. And even if you were 20 years older, he has a family- kids and a wife. It's NOT ok in any way. Stick to guys your age, at least until you're legal.
Can you say PEDOPHILE?
He's robbing the cradle in this case. Stay away from him.
Well, if I were you, i would avoid this guy. He is WAY off your limit and is already married with kids. Do you ever think that this guy could be stalking you? He just thinks that you are attractive. It's like an old guy telling a little girl they dont even know how pretty they look or how cute they are.
Oh my goodness. I am an old guy myself and I can't imagine any good coming from this. I know you said you like it, but trust me, no good will come of it.
Avoid him no matter how much you like the attention for two reasons:

1) he is way too old for you...older men love to take advantage of underage teenagers.

2) He is married...hello...when you get married would you want your husband fooling around with some kid?
It's OK to enjoy attention from guys.

But I think you might find yourself in a dangerous situation if you don't watch it. I think you are paying him too much attention in return and he's going to get the wrong idea.

You DO NOT want to get involved with an older, married guy with kids. Maybe you are too young to see that now, but it would turn into a huge mess.

So, in short, enjoy the attention all you want....but don't take these guys seriously. No good could come of it.
Don't toy with a man's feelings. He is inappropriate for two reasons: 1. you are far too young for him. 2. he is married.

Avoid him, or say something which will put him in his place, like, "you're like a father to me....can you give me some advice about this boy I like?"

He's a perv. Stay away from the Pub. You're too young for that, too.
well first ure 17 so i dont what u are doing by a pub and drinking champagne but i say stay away from him all he wants is sex from a girl with a body like ure cuse ure 17 but i cant tell u what to do but u may wanna try talking to ure parents about it
That's kinda weird i'm not going lie
you might enjoy it. but its abit weird and worring that he is 30 and married.

you dont want 2 split up a marrage.

i think maby you should try and ignore it or just be normal.

if he trys somthing more forward tell him that he is married and that your only 17 and you think its wrong.

you dont want it 2 go 2 far!! espeshily if he gets drunk. he could do anythink! so be carful.

i hope this helped.

please answer my question haha im desperate

xxx
You are about to get in way over your head.If he is married stay away you will cause him and yourself a bunch of problems,and not to mention you might end up doing something that could hurt his kids relationship with their father.
Well i'm sure the attention is nice but seems like he wants to cheat on his wife and not want to be with his kids .....say you two get together and he leaves his wife chances are he will cheat on you same way he did with his wife but what could you do? Honey be classly not trashy unless he is single find someone else to give you the attention.
lol stay away.. he likes you, but he'll never love you. He just wants your pussy .. sorry to be so explict, but your young and he's older so he wants a taste of that younger stuff. He already has children and a wife and i doubt he'll never leave them so you should just burn this fantasy. Feelings always arise after sex so yea and that is where this thing is going. He wants it and you may give it since you said it turns you on. Love shouldn't really have an age limit, but he is clearly past the limit when his kids and wife are in the picture. Burn this fantasy up to ashes and each time he flirts maybe smile, but clearly show him your not interested.
I know you like the attention but there are plenty of young men that will pay attention to you and have nicer thoughts of you than some married jerk who is willing to go after a young girl. You're not likely his only target and God knows what he does with others that could be of consequence to you. I'm guessing that you're in Britain and are a legal adult there but please be careful. He's only interested in one thing. Who knows, he might be disease-ridden! I say avoid him and let someone closer to your age and single pay attention to you. Why would you want to complicate your life at such a young age? You're whole future lies before you and he shouldn't be a part of it. He has a life, with a wife and kids.

Currently, here in the U.S., there's a case where a 23 year old mother has gone missing and her police officer husband is the prime suspect. He was married to his 2nd wife when he started the affair with her. He was in his 30's and she was 16. His 2nd wife died under mysterious circumstances that they are only now beginning to investigate. I doubt they will find his current wife alive. I'm attaching a link below so you can read up on it.